Do you come from the domain of misfits? Do you surface your home is not really home to you? A person who is not suited to the role, social group,...
A person who is not suited to the role, social group, etc., he or she finds himself or herself within.
Answers: Hmmm. How is this DIY related?
To answer however, since I'm here, "No, I don't". To feel that approach, for you, is that self generated, or externally affirmed?
Have you have thoughts that you're OK, but the rest of us aren't?
My home is very much home to me. It be in a highly sad state of disrepair when the wife and I purchased it. I enjoy many years of blood, sweat and tears contained by my now massively nice home. It has become a sanctuary for me and my inherited, I only be aware of really comfortable when I am here. Very suited to the role I have choosen for myself.