How can I net my bedroom look more feminine / sexy? ...


Answers:    First keep it verbs. Nothing more un-sexy than a dirty room.
Keep dirty clothes put away and put half your "stuff" surrounded by storage or give it to charity. Dust and vacuum at smallest once a week. If the walls are dirty wash them or supply a fresh coat of paint.
Second, Your bedding is important. Buy a nice comforter or duvet and buy or formulate 5-6 decorative pillows of complimentary colors/patterns.
Thirdly, Some candles here and within and if you like, a forge fur area rug.
A sexy room is an inviting room.
The colors, pattern and candles you select can be cool colors to give a feminine quality. Purples, blues, some pinks or peaches.
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